Common Sense - All you need

All you need is COMMON SENSE!

i have encountered people and heard quite a lot of their challenges, but one thing is certain about most of our challenges, especially FINANCIAL, RELATIONAL and FAMILY.

it is lack of common sense.

If we gat this, we would make less mistakes in what we do.

if as a lady, you employ your common sense in relationship, you will hardly get heart broken or weep over a lost one.

it is COMMON SENSICAL to know that when things are going too fast, you should slow down because accidents ends such furious and such accidents are colossal.

its COMMON SENSICAL to know that when a guy is too smooth and nice, you should observe closely because nothing is ever too nice to be definite. rough edges DOES EXISTS.

it is COMMON SENSICAL to know that anything founded on lust, infatuation and falsehood will not last.

COMMON SENSE means the idea without pressure or any form of impact from external ideologies and theories.

if you then have COMMON SENSE with you in all you do, especially in your relationships, you will fight-less, cry-less, worry-less and enjoy your life.

Activate your COMMON SENSE and be stress-free.

Please put this to work and watch the margin of transformation that occurs in your life.

Now i Write: Procrastination - A thief of time...

I have been battling with a particular Sin for several years now. Recently i decided that i will continue to ask for forgiveness anytime i commit sin, after all, God is all forgiving.

That Night i had a dream that i was in an interview hall and my form number was 17 out of over 10,000 people because i was more qualified than a lot of them.

I started filling the form and midway i got distracted and went after something else, by the time i returned, my form was gone. so i went to the table and took another from the stack of blank forms and started to fill again. soon i was distracted again and left, came back again and took another form.

this continued for several circles till this time.

i returned and took a form from the stack and saw that it was used, i took another but it was also used.

i began to get scared i might lose out of the interview even though i knew i was better qualified for the job than the other candidates, luckily i found one blank form and happily started filling in a hurry, but then i looked at the top and saw it was form no. 3,700.

Procrastination only postpone the blessings you are qualified for and may out-rightly disqualify you.

the issue of time should only come when you are ready to move NOW, a hard lesson i learnt when i didn't!!!

Now i Write: The start of a better me…

Ok so I now weigh 15st 3lb which is the heaviest I’ve ever been!


I am unhappy with how I look, seeing lovely clothes and know that they will either look awful on, or they won’t have my size (16/18) but the main reason I want to lose weight is because I know I am unhealthy! I’m tired all the time, lazy and even a short walk leaves me breathless!

I sit and moan and I’m unhappy about it all but that is just unproductive and will achieve nothing. Moaning to my friends gets me nowhere!

So on Wednesday 4th November I started Weight Watchers.

Now I’ve done Weight Watchers before and don’t get me wrong for the first few weeks I was on a role, but as with every other “diet” I did, life got in the way.

So why Weight Watchers again this time?

Well I’ve tried multiple diets, shakes, drinks, you name it; they just weren’t for me! I just find it hard to be so disciplined. What I like about Weight Watchers is that you can eat what you want as long as you track it. Ok that’s a pretty simplistic view, I wouldn’t live on McDonalds and think “oh as long as I track it, i’ll be fine“, but it fits in with my lifestyle!

My job takes me on the road a lot, different events week to week; Now I know the trick to any “diet” is planning, but sometimes it’s just not feasible. Excuse? No, I’m being honest!

What’s going to be different?

This! Whenever I’ve done a “diet” I’ve not really told anyone, sure a few friends, my husband, but I’ve always been embarrassed about admitting I’m on a “diet”. This probably sounds stupid, but in my heart there was something which always holds me back telling people because I know I would end up failing. I’m also quite a bubbly outgoing person, I rarely reveal what I’m thinking or my feelings and when I’m down people can usually tell immediately. This is another reason why I don’t like people knowing.

So I’ve decided to start this blog, if nobody reads it that’s fine, to be honest its for me. I need to start taking control of my life again. For me this blog won’t just be about weight loss, it’s going to be about my journey to becoming a happy healthier person. Corney eh? Yes, probably, but I got married this year and turned 30, and whilst my relationship and home life (bar the laziness and unhealthiness) is great, work and my heatlh are not.

For me this blog will just give me a chance to air my thoughts and get things of my chest! There will be good things and probably bad things but I am confident that this will help!

That’s it for now. I’m going to put the laptop down, try and see if I can sync my Polar Watch to the Weight Watchers App (both handy tools which i’ll talk about next time) and then head to the gym!

Bye for now!